Thursday, December 3, 2009

Man Flu



It all started as a normal day, it had all been pretty uneventful as far as Thursdays go. I only had to remove one crayon from Mate's nose, which was an improvement to the norm. I had picked Katy up from school, and had decided to sneak in some twitter time whilst the kids watched Scooby Doo. Not the old one that we used to love and enjoy, this new fangled abomination bears as much resemblance to our version as an acorn does to an oak tree.

Anyway, all was well in Casa Gooner until I started feeling a bit cold. I even remember tweeting "Have had to put a hoody on as I'm so cold. May go and mug a teenager and teach them some irony." That tweet marked the beginning of 5 days of sheer torture. At points in that period I half expected the CIA to come knocking, asking me to threaten to breathe on some detainees in Guantanamo Bay. It would have been far more effective than water boarding, although I'm sure The Hague would have taken issue with it.

Before an hour had passed I was laying on the sofa, shivering and wishing I still lived at home so my Mum could look after me. The Wife got home eventually, took one look at me and with a worried voice said "Did you manage to prepare dinner before you got ill?" I didn't have the strength to throw anything at her so I aimed some toxic breath her way. Luckily the family was spared the prospect of Chicken a la Burnt as I had already made something.

As the night progressed I went downhill rapidly. My body was freezing and yet I was sweating from everywhere, even my fingernails. I was perspiring so much, it was like the collective sweat of a weight watchers meeting held in a cake shop. I made myself a Lemsip (couldn't trust wife not to burn it) opened up the sofa-bed, snuggled under the duvet and drifted in and out of a sleep-like state.

Of course being ill and laying down meant I had to relinquish ownership of the remote control. I'm not sure in what world making an ill bloke endure a double episode of Ugly Betty is considered a helpful thing, but it sure isn't the one I inhabit. I'm almost certain that listening to her nasally whiny voice for two hours is what caused the four day headache that followed. I also had a very restless feverish night, full of dreams where I had to write a daily blog for a failing fashion magazine. Damn you Ugly Betty.

I woke up the next day feeling even worse, something I had not thought possible the night before. My Wife was unwilling unable to take the day off work, so I was forced to endure the school run. The school caretaker took one look at me, and covered his face with a dubious looking handkerchief. I half expected him to get his bell out and start tolling it to the shout of UNCLEAN, UNCLEAN. I managed to dump Katy and escape from the barrage of suggestions from the well intentioned, but know-it-all Mothers. Not one of them suggested I curl up and die, but that was exactly what I was going home to do.

Upon returning home I garnered the last of my strength to grab a load of Mate quietening treats, and my Indiana Jones DVD box set. I had decided that Mate should become an archaeologist and today was as good a day as any for him to start swotting up on the subject. Grabbing the duvet and another Lemsip, we retired to the sofa and started to study. I must have fallen asleep during the film for I woke to a loud BANG and the mother of all headaches. BANG. There it went again, I looked around for the source of the noise. BANG. Oh my God I thought my head was going to explode, please let it stop. I spotted Mate picking up a feather and dropping it, BANG. I coughed and the noise sounded like a tantrum of teenagers playing drums in my head.

I dragged myself to the kitchen to take some of my migraine tablets. When I swallowed them it felt like I was swallowing barbed wire. I poured a cold glass of water to help soothe my throat and even that was painful. How in the name of all that's unholy, can water feel spiky? I struggled back to the sofa, threw Mate an apple, and covered my head with a pillow. I may have cried, I really can't remember, if I didn't then I definitely deserved a Mummy's bravery reward.

The wife rang late in the afternoon to enquire after my health and to remind me she was meant to be going out that night. I lied and told her I was starting to improve, and that she should go out. The thought of her in charge of the TV remote for another night was too much to bear. The kids got fed junk food that evening. There were a few complaints about the frozen peas, but I passed them off as mini vegetable ice lollies. I packed them off to bed without a bath, I couldn't smell anything anyway, and then I settled into the sofa bed for the night.

At around 9.30pm I had a brainwave, and decided that gargling with wine may help the pain in my throat. It didn't, but by the time the bottle was finished I didn't much care anyway. I spent the rest of the night tossing and turning, caught between sleep and pain. The wife eventually returned at 3am full of remorse and Pinot Grigio. I endured her apologies for as long as I could, which was 10 minutes, before I sent her and her KFC upstairs.

Revenge was mine the next morning when the kids woke up. I reminded her hung-over self of my terrible illness, and sent her downstairs to deal with the kids. Saturday for me was spent in bed with the door closed, and a towel at the foot of it for sound proofing purposes. I could vaguely hear the screaming and shouting, I could also hear the kids, and for the first time in three days I smiled.

Saturday morphed into Sunday and everybody seemed to survive the weekend. The kids now looked like Augustus Gloop and the treat cupboard was empty, but what the hell, the house was still in one piece. Monday came around, and thankfully most of the symptoms started to disappear. I emerged from the dark side lighter (whoop whoop), and with the knowledge that nothing could possibly be worse that what I had just endured.

Three days later I discovered something worse than Man Flu, Wife Flu.

16 comments:

Very Bored Housewife said...

Very funny, glad you're on the mend now.

Inshin said...

effin brilliant!!

From not too far in I felt a comic storyboard would be fantastic for this !!!!

DV

quillfeather said...

I so wish you were here so I could hug you to death. Nothing brings a smile to my face faster than one of your blogs.

Dear god, what to say...? I should, at least commiserate with your bout of man flu, but I wont, because without it, you wouldn't have made my day :)

PS. Hope your wife is better and you've hidden the remote...

Brit in Bosnia / Fraught Mummy said...

Surely revenge is yours - you have control of the remote and mate has a feather...

Wife flu cannot be as bad as man flu. Or maybe it is worker flu vs. stay at home doing everything flu. I've never been able to fathom why flu necessitates Dave staying at home IN BED when he has a nice quite office to go to. When I get flu I still have to get up and do my day job. Which is loud, noisy, physical and involves a lot of poo. I'd pay to go to his office.

Cate P said...

Another brilliantly written, hilarious snapshot of your life J.
I absolutely love it.
I actually felt bad for you having been there myself ( not the Man version, but the Bitch version...still able to throw missiles, just that the blurred vision from looking through tears threw my aim off.... the cat avoided me for weeks).
I think you should have extra exciting Thursdays from now on, just in case.
Keep it up honey :)

Heather said...

brilliant post. Had me laughing...ahem, I mean...feeling sorry for you there.

Russ said...

The Man Flu is no laughing matter!

westendmum said...

Oh God poor you.
Well done for surviving.
Vegetable lollies - like it.
WEM xx

George's Mum said...

hilarious. glad you're better!! thanks for being my
4 th 'follower'!! Anna x

The Dotterel said...

Those colds are getting really nasty aren't they?

Geriatric Mummy said...

Too funny - again. Good to have you back and feeling better.

There's nothing worse than being a SAH parent when you're ill and can't take the day off. Wishing I could have sent chicken soup...

Insomniac Mummy said...

I have wife flu and am in charge of the kids who are also suffering.

Really needed that laugh, so ta muchly.

Oh, and my favourie bit, 'mini vegetable ice lollies', I actually snorted!

:D

Nene said...

OMG I felt ill just reading it. I think you should take over J. Clarkson's column in the Sunday Times. You're much more funny and far more deserving.

Really Rachel said...

Excellent post! Made me chuckle! Hope you're much better now. And how's your wife?
There's an award for you at mine to cheer you up :o)

Diana (Diane) Maria said...

I stumbled upon your blog not too long ago and have been a fan ever since. Great stories. Write on!

Diane

Jacqui said...

Two questions:
1: Are you sure it was the flu, and not a touch of hayfever?
2: Why do men honestly believe possession of the remote control is their birth right? Well? (oops, that's a third question...)